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Let’s Put the Word Sick to Bed


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Words guide us, choose them consciously.

Coughs and sneezes are heard in households all over the world. Late night fun times in the bathroom taking care of kids are had by all parents. It is amazing (and gross) the things that ooze and fly out of our kids. Symptoms happen.

It is common that when our child has symptoms and we tell them they are sick. Most of us do this whenever our child has a cold or flu or barf bug. We often announce it when we ourselves aren’t feeling well.

Now I have a question for you, one you may have never considered:


Is your child sick because

they have symptoms?


Sickness is the lack of the ability of the body to adapt. Aren’t the symptoms of a cold, flu or barf bug a sign the body is adapting?


Here’s the science.

When a child gets a viral or bacterial infection the body responds by doing things like:

  • Increasing the body’s temperature to kill the bug
  • Producing mucous which eliminates the chemical by-products, dead bacteria or viruses and debris from the healing process
  • Your child has less energy because the body is redirecting it’s resources to adapt and clear the bug


These are all signs of a body that is adapting to its environment and this is HEALTHY. 

Sick would be a body that is not able to sense and respond nor heal. The childhood flues, colds, coughs and projectile vomiting sessions are actually proof that your child’s body is healthy. It is doing what it needs to do to restore balance


Here’s the philosophy:

I believe that telling a child that they are sick when they have a routine childhood illness disempowers them. It tells them they are a victim of something outside themselves instead of highlighting their inner healing power. It discounts their body’s wisdom that runs the show and is smart and is healing their body.


Here’s the action step:

So the next step is to try different languaging.

So of telling your child they are sick why not try saying….


“Your body is processing.”


“I see your body is cycling.”


“You are symptomatic” (my 14 year old said recently “Mom I am symptomatic. Can I skip lacrosse today?”


“Looks like your body is having a rainy day.” (For more on this see this blog post add link.)


“Your body is healing, that is why you are warm. Let’s snuggle”


These words infer that they are healthy, strong and that they are merely adapting. It does not ignore the symptoms but it frames them in an empowering way. It says this is normal and you are recovering. This too shall pass.

All of these examples infer process instead of predicament. This begins to help them form Holistic Headspace! And a child with holistic headspace feels their body is capable and healthy.

Let’s put the word sick to bed – instead learn and teach the Language of Wellness in your family!


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